Declutter: Blushes

As previously mentioned, I'm moving overseas and am downsizing my makeup! Blush is one of those products that I have a thing for and really enjoy using. I've owned a lot of blush in my time and have given most of it away to family and friends, so I thought I already had my blush collection down to a "reasonable" size. But when push comes to shove, as it has in this case, it turns out there's quite a few I can still bear to part with.

Declutter: Blushes

Declutter: Concealer, Highlighter, Brows

Welcome to part two of my makeup declutter series (here's part one in case you missed it). Same deal as before, if you didn't know, my boyfriend and I are moving overseas in a couple of weeks and I need to downsize, big time. Anything I'm not bringing with me is being given to family and friends or will be going in the bin as things like concealer that I've had for a couple of years is a bit gross to pass on to someone else.

Declutter: Concealer, Highlighter, Brows

On Being in a Style Rut

It's taken me a while to realise it, but I've finally come to accept that I'm in the middle of a style rut. I wanted to write about it not just because it might resonate with any of you, but also because you might have some help or advice for me and I'd love to start some conversation. I feel like I'm finally getting through the halfway point and I'm starting to take control and make my way to where I want to be. I know there are far, far greater problems to have in life, but for me and for many people, getting dressed every day is a form of self expression and being in a rut is just like any other creative outlet, so it's pretty shit when when you feel like you've lost your mojo.

On Being in a Style Rut

Declutter: Primers, Foundations & Powders

Welcome to the first instalment of my declutter series! I haven't really seen anyone doing this kind of thing in a blog post before, but declutters are my favourite YouTube videos to watch and this is exactly the kind of content I'd be excited to see, so it's what I've decided to make and I hope you like it too!

Declutter: Primers, Foundations & Powders

Trash Talk: Makeup & Skincare

Forgive me being so crap at empties posts. I feel like they're a really good source of information and I love seeing other people's mini reviews on products they've obviously had plenty of experience using, but for me there's often quite a gap between taking my photos and throwing the rubbish out vs actually posting about it. And if I have to take photos of another lot of empties (which I did before I moved house to avoid packing up literal garbage) then in this case they're going to get combined, and the less interesting stuff gets cut because nobody wants a post that's 6,000 words long.

Trash Talk: Makeup & Skincare

On Blogging & Consumerism

I'd like to preface this by saying most people probably wouldn't look at the amount of stuff I own and call me a minimalist, but over the last couple of years I'd like to think I've become a lot more careful with my purchases and that I'm heading in that direction more and more. I now feel a lot happier letting go of things that I know someone else will enjoy more than me. This goes across both my beauty stash as well as clothes and most things that I used to buy a lot of. I'm really not trying to be preachy in this post and I hope it doesn't read that way, but I just want to share my experience and some of my thoughts in case it resonates with any of you.

On Blogging & Consumerism

New In: US Haul

Hi friends, as I mentioned in my last post I've been MIA because I was overseas in the States for a few weeks. I had an incredible time and am really looking forward to putting together some travel content when I've got a bit of time, but for now I have a lil post about everything beauty related that I picked up on my trip. While I think I was pretty well behaved, I did still pick up a few things here and there. Aside from the fact that my boyfriend and I are trying to be pretty conservative with our money in the lead up to our move to Toronto, it also didn't make sense for me to buy a whole bunch of stuff I would just have to pack up and bring with me. But I couldn't go to the US and not try anything new, so I made a few "necessary" purchases online before we left and got them delivered to our hotel in San Francisco so they would be there when we arrived. That way I didn't have to bring things like cleansers and shampoo & conditioner with me and I got to try a few new things. I was pretty pleased with myself when I came up with that idea.

New In: US Haul
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In My Secret Life

At the risk of sounding like Debbie Downer, life sure is challenging at the moment. I'm very, very grateful for the fact that part of what's on my plate is planning an overseas holiday which my boyfriend and I leave for at the end of this week, but outside of that things haven't been great. I have never planned my own holiday with so little build up time before, and I feel like life doesn't often just hand you these wonderful things without putting you through some difficult shit first, so that's just where I'm at right now. But there's just a few more days to go and then it's holiday time!

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In My Secret Life

I'm Moving to Toronto!

That's right, my boyfriend and I are moving to the home of baby angel Drake so we can run through the 6 with our woes! Actually, believe it not, Drake isn't the only reason we're going. But when it came down to it, the main reason for us was pretty simple - why not? I've always wanted to live overseas but it seemed like such a far off, unattainable thing. But really all you have to do is decide you want to do it and then suddenly it becomes a possibility. Of course there's a lot of work that follows, but step one is changing your mindset because it's definitely not going to happen until you do that.

I'm Moving to Toronto!
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New Arrivals

I rarely buy myself beauty products these days, but I was very lucky to be spoiled around Christmas time so I thought I'd share my (very exciting) new things with you guys and my thoughts on the ones I've tried so far.

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New Arrivals
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5 Tips for Travelling Alone

I thought I'd do something a little different today and it comes in the form of my tips for travelling on your own. A lot of people don't like the idea of travelling solo, they think they'll get lonely or worry about not having anyone they can rely on if something goes wrong in a foreign city. While I love travelling with family or friends, travelling alone is definitely a different experience, especially if you do it for weeks or months at a time. I learned so much from it and can’t recommend it enough, especially if you’re nervous to do it, because it’ll teach you a lot about yourself and will probably improve your confidence too.

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5 Tips for Travelling Alone
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In My Secret Life

There have been some ups and downs recently, but one of the biggest ups has been going to Melbourne for a girls' weekend in November. Tahlia and I went to visit Elly and Tenneil (who live together) and we had a great time eating and shopping and staying up til the early hours of the morning with Elly giving a dramatic reading of her pre-teen diary about all the boys she had crushes on. Tahlia, Elly & I relived our glory days by driving around listing to pop punk and Tenneil and I did our makeup together in the mornings like an IRL Get Ready With Me. I shot a roll of 35mm film so whenever I get that developed I might post some photos, but rest assured that even without visual evidence, I had a great time.


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In My Secret Life
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The Best Blood Reds

I've mentioned before that blood reds are my favourite shades to wear, and particularly if they're matte. I remember a few years ago hunting high and low for the perfect shade and not being able to find anything right. Luckily these days when brands launch new lip products, most of the time a deep red is in the mix. As someone who is more or less a connoisseur of red lipstick, trust me when I say that although to the untrained eye these might look like they're all the same, they're actually very different.

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The Best Blood Reds

My Favourite Candle Brands

I'm not sure why candles are such a thing in the beauty community, but there is something so enjoyable about a good home fragrance, and it's even better when they double as beautiful decorations too. There are a lot of brands out there and it can be hard to know what to buy when you don't want to sacrifice an arm and a leg, or your soul (I'm looking at you, Tom Ford). It's also pretty disappointing when you buy a nice candle only to find that you can hardly smell it when it burns, which in my experience often happens with the cheaper options. I've tried a few duds before, so I wanted to put together my favourite brands that I feel comfortable recommending and that I've never been let down by.

My Favourite Candle Brands
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Trash Talk: Skincare

For reasons I will hopefully talk about eventually, I have been on a serious kick of trying to finish up everything I own and have essentially stopped buying new things as well while I try to get through my drawer of backups. So that means I've got a tonne of empties for you. I'm also trying to run through my makeup and work out what's not essential. I don't know if I'm going to do something like a declutter post - lord knows I love a good declutter video on YT but I'm sure sure how well it would translate to a blog post? But anyway I'll have my makeup, hair & bodycare empties in another post because these get too long really quickly. 

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Trash Talk: Skincare

In My Secret Life

In a way this is more of a favourites post, but since I'm covering a few different areas I suppose it's a life update too because it's what I've been enjoying lately. Most of my favourites have actually been birthday gifts since October is my birthday month. I've never really done the whole "what I got for my birthday" thing but that's what a lot of this post is. Once I started my mid-twenties I lost all my excitement about my birthday and now I dread it every year, but receiving some lovely, thoughtful presents definitely helps soften the blow.

In My Secret Life
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Haul & Reviews (UK & USA)

I'm super lucky to have friends and family who humour me and don't mind picking up a few beauty bits and pieces while they're overseas. In August my family travelled around Europe and one of my best friends spent the month in New York, so I thought rather than ask them to run around picking up things for me when they should be enjoying their holiday, I ordered what I wanted online and had it delivered to them or to a shop near them so they could pick it up for me. Because money is tight these days I think I was pretty conservative with what I bought since just stuck to things that were hard to get my hands on at home, and I've had them all for long enough now that I can give you my thoughts on most of it as well.

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Haul & Reviews (UK & USA)

In My Secret Life #5

Life has been a bit of a rollercoaster lately, but I'm trying to focus on all the good things instead of the bad ones. When things aren't so uncertain I'll probably be less vague, but for now it's too early to say much. The biggest positive in life lately is that, as I mentioned in my last update-type post, I moved out of home for the first time a few months ago and now I live with one of my best friends and my boyfriend and it's just the best. Also it's finally Spring and the warm weather makes all the difference to my mindset and my experience of everyday life. Sunny days make the world feel like it's full of possibilities! Anyway, I thought I'd make this post a bit of a round up of all my current favourite things, so here goes.

In My Secret Life #5
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All About Hair

I'm definitely a low maintenance girl when it comes to my hair. I don't have a huge stash of styling products, and I tend to be pretty cautious about investing in high end products because historically what other people recommend doesn't tend to work that well for me. My hair is waist length and has been for years, so I thought I’d talk about what products I use to keep it healthy and how I like to style it.

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All About Hair
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Let's Talk Brows

Since I don’t really own enough brow products to do a Top 5 post, I thought I’d just give you guys a run-down of everything I own and my thoughts on them in case it helps you decide what to buy next. I think the biggest struggle with brow products is finding a shade that’s cool enough, because a lot of brands make products that are too warm-toned and they make my brows lean red. I tend to go for the darkest brown shade as I think black can look too harsh on people with fair skin like me (unless you have black hair, of course) and I need something really ashy/cool as I prefer my brows to match my dark brown hair and look full while still seeming natural.

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Let's Talk Brows
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Top 4 Foundations

This post has been a long time coming, mostly because foundation is one of my favourite categories of makeup and also because it's so personal and I really wanted to make sure I got my thoughts together before choosing my favourites so these aren't just standard "they're great!" reviews. It took me a while to decide that, like with my favourite primers, I didn't want to just pick 5 for the sake of talking about 5 products, so again I'm only going to talk about my four favourites because although I use and enjoy more than just these four, these are the ones that are a step above the rest for one reason or another.

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Top 4 Foundations
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Trash Talk: Empty Products

Once again, I have finished up a whole bunch of products and I feel like given how sporadically I post this is probably the best way for me to review things so I hope you guys like these posts and find them helpful!

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Trash Talk: Empty Products

Top 4 Primers & My Thoughts

For most other beauty products I've found it difficult to narrow it down to my top 5, but when it comes to primers I wanted to only share the ones that I feel strongly about, so even though I've tried a lot of primers in my time (including a LOT of minis & samples), not many of them make the cut. I've become a bit disenchanted, mostly because there are so many different types and it can be hard to get a gauge on which ones actually perform. In fact a lot of people don't bother using them at all because they can seem like they're a bit of a waste of time.

I find them to be a really confusing area of beauty and one where I don't have a lot of faith in the claims that brands make. Some say they're a 7 in one miracle product and other brands release 7 different primers that each do one thing. These days there are primers for smoothing, colour correcting, oil absorbing, acne fighting, pore filling, brightening and hydrating your skin - surely one product could do several of these things at the same time, but probably not all of them. So I wanted to put down some of my thoughts about primers in case it all feels a bit too much like hard work for you as well, and if you have oily skin like me I'm also going to talk about the 4 primers that I find actually help my makeup last noticeably longer.

Top 4 Primers & My Thoughts